He's not that into you......the RANDOM version!!!

Time and time again.....we meet people, we come to like them but then over time things change. And if we don’t like the response we are getting from that person, we start to wonder and come up with excuses for them to make ourselves feel better about the situation. Believe me I’ve been there, done that. I mean look at me....I’m so hard to resist ;)  Anyway, why is it that we can’t come to terms with the fact that maybe, just MAYBE this person is really not that into us as much as we thought they were. Or is it that maybe that person likes to play HARD TO GET (even though that game is so played out!!!)???


*You constantly find yourself calling or texting him. For some reason he never reaches out to you first. You think to yourself "Maybe he’s busy", "He's probably waiting for me to hit him up first", "I wonder if his girlfriend found out....."(Lmao hit a nerve?). Did you ever stop to think that maybe he's not thinking about you or just doesn’t feel like hitting you up?!


*Whenever you speak to him, you tell him things like "I miss you" and he responds with "Really?" or "Aww I feel so special". Or "When am I gonna see you" and he responds with "I'll let you know" or "How about this weekend" and when you call or text to confirm.....NO ANSWER.


*If all your "dates" are after 12:00am and consist of drinks and sex......you're just a booty call. Some people are ok with that but if you're looking for love look the other way.


*If you're only invited over to his house when no one is home or when everyone is sleeping, he doesn’t want anyone to know about you. Therefore, you should make a whole lot of noise and make him scream your name so they know EXACTLY who you are. ;)


*Now there are the ones I like to call "the Gasser Upper". He's the type that tells you all the right things, everything you want to hear. And omg it sounds so good, like music to your ears. But it's all BULLSHIT. He tells you how much he likes you, how you're so different, how you got that good good....like he's never had before. He tells you how you have all the qualities he would want in a girlfriend, how his mother would love you, how you & him are a match like no other....the two of you together would make the world jealous. IT’S ALL BULLSHIT. Just remember....actions speak a hell of a lot louder than words. If he's talking a good talk but walking a little retarded, its time to let the RA-Tard goooo because he’s nothing but a GASSER UPPER.


*If you've been "engaged" for 7+ years.....it's definitely time to move on. That's way too long to be committed to someone without being legally married yet. If waiting that long was not a mutual agreement, start asking questions because something isn’t right.


*If he's been telling you he's going to leave his girlfriend/wife/baby’s mother (IT HAPPENS.....A LOT) for years now but still hasn’t done it, then the fact is he most likely never will. But if he does do it, you should never trust a man like that. Next thing you know, you'll be the girlfriend/wife/baby’s mother being left for another woman.


These tips go for men as well. I’m just saying "He/Him/His" because I’m a female. This blog was meant to be fun but at the same time I see a lot of females getting their hearts broken or getting caught up with the wrong ones because they are too blind to see. Just because we like someone does not mean we should settle for whatever they want to give us, whenever they want to give it to us. We need to open our eyes up a little more. We need to realize that time is precious; life is too short for the bullshit and kiddie games. If you're out there trying to find true love, know your worth. There's nothing wrong with having a little fun but with someone who's not so serious about finding love. On the other hand, if you're serious about it, find that person who respects your time and values. Someone who's not afraid to hit you up just because they're thinking about you and want to speak to you. Someone who makes time for you, who wants to see you and be with you and not just for the sex. Someone who’s not afraid to tell you that they like you, and tell you all the things they like about you. Someone who wants you....your time, your attention, your love, touch, kisses and hugs. But if you happen to meet someone who calls and texts you all day long, gets pissed when you don’t respond, shows up at your home or job without letting you know, some how knows your every where about or threatens to harm themselves if you leave them........RUNNNNNNN!!!!!!!


XoXo -Random